Four things you can do when your girlfriend wants to have an abortion.
- She may feel confused and need your help to explore all her options. Click the 24/7 Nurse Chat to talk to a nurse about your options.
- She may feel afraid of the future. Be ready to talk about tough topics like money, career and work goals, and parenting dreams.
- She may be embarrassed. Attend medical appointments with her.
- She may feel overwhelmed. Let her know that you are committed to her and the baby.
Isn’t it her choice?
Yes, the ultimate decision is hers. It is your responsibility to speak up and be involved in the decision making.79
- This could be a difficult decision for her. Say “I want figure it out together.”
- Don’t be silent. Tell her how you feel. “Can we talk?” “I feel…”
- “Would you like to make an appointment together to get more information?” Make a No-cost appointment to discuss pregnancy options.
- Your involvement matters. Our Guys page has more tips for you.
An abortion is just getting rid of tissue. Isn’t it?
If your partner or girlfriend is pregnant, the two of you have actually created a baby. It is called a fetus in these early weeks, but it is alive and has a beating heart 21 days after conception.
- An early ultrasound will help you understand what is going on in your partner’s body.
- We offer no-cost ultrasound at CPC. Call today to make an appointment.
Why does my girlfriend want an abortion?
- Many women choose abortion because they don’t want to be alone and a single mom. Speak up and commit to supporting her and your baby.
- Many women choose abortion because they feel abandoned by the partner. Don’t be that guy.
- Many women have financial concerns about raising a baby alone. Commit to sharing the financial burden with her.